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Darrin T. O’Connor

July 29, 1962 - June 2, 2023
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Farenga Funeral Home
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Tara,Billy,Alissa,Landon & Miranda
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Tara,Billy,Alissa,Landon & Miranda
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Tara,Billy,Alissa,Landon & Miranda
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Joseph FARENGA and Sons Inc.
38-08 Ditmars Blvd.
Astoria, NY 11105
718.726.6060 | Map
Sunday 6/4, 2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Joseph FARENGA and Sons Inc.
38-08 Ditmars Blvd.
Astoria, NY 11105
718.726.6060 | Map
Sunday 6/4, 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
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All Souls Crematory
Monday 6/5, 11:15 am - 11:45 am
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St. Francis of Assisi Church
21-17 45th Street
Astoria, NY 11105
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Grieve not… nor speak of me with tears… but laugh and talk of me… as though I were beside you. I loved you so…

Shaun Caruana left a message on June 7, 2023:
Sending my sincere condolences to the entire O'Connor family. I am shocked to hear about Darrin's passing. I know that there is nothing I could say that would even come close to easing your pain, only know that I am here for you, even if just in thought and prayer. May he rest in peace.
Donna Carter left a message on June 6, 2023:
Dear Laurieann & family,We are so sorry on the loss of Darrin He was such a hard worker for his family, best husband & father a family could ask for Laurieann & Darrin were a match made for each other at such a young age May you rest in peace DarrinThe Carter Family
Tara,Billy,Alissa,Landon & Miranda left a message on June 5, 2023:
Rest in peace Uncle Darrin you will be missed. Aunt Laurie, Bryan Colin Caitlyn and kids our condolences to you and your family love you all
Tara,Billy,Alissa,Landon & Miranda left a message on June 5, 2023:
Rest in peace Uncle Darrin you will be missed. Aunt Laurie, Bryan Colin Caitlyn and kids our condolences to you and your family love you all
Tara,Billy,Alissa,Landon & Miranda left a message on June 5, 2023:
Rest in peace Uncle Darrin you will be missed. Aunt Laurie, Bryan Colin Caitlyn and kids our condolences to you and your family love you all
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Rose Petruzzellis left a message on June 5, 2023:
Sending my deepest sympathies to the O'Connor and Hili families on the loss of your loved one, Darrin. With Love Rose Petruzzellis
Ann Walls left a message on June 5, 2023:
In memory of Darrin T. O’Connor, Ann Walls lit a candle
CAROL BRIFFA left a message on June 4, 2023:
RIP COUSIN DARRIN🙏
Mike Regnerus left a message on June 4, 2023:
My deepest condolences to the O’Connor family.I worked with Darrin at 2 Lafayette Street.He was a great guy . I’m so sorry!! He’s in my prayers
Peter Cullen left a message on June 4, 2023:
Working with Darrin at DCAS was just a joy. Good memories of morning coffee and solving the worlds daily problems in a few minutes. RIP Darrin, till we meet again.
Dale Christian left a message on June 4, 2023:
God bless you 🙏
Kathleen Italiano left a message on June 4, 2023:
To Laurie and all of your lovely family- I am so sorry for your loss. I have watched your family grow and how much love you had for each other. He will be greatly missed. Sending prayers and hugs to you all.
Michele Bartolo-Korman left a message on June 4, 2023:
My deepest sympathies to the whole family. May his memory be a blessing to you. Prayers and love to all, Michele
Cousin Cheryl left a message on June 3, 2023:
Sending everyone prayers of Love and Peace, while remembering our fun and laugh filled times from camping and hiking to family visits. I pray that everyone can be lifted by just remembering Darrin’s strong, kind, calm presence and his dry sense of humor. Rest in Peace. Love Cheryl
Joanne Olivet left a message on June 3, 2023:
My condolences to the Hili family. May Darrin rest in eternal peace 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Gale Bartolo left a message on June 3, 2023:
May you Rest in Eternal Peace 🙏
Gale Bartolo left a message on June 3, 2023:
May you Rest in Eternal Peace 🙏
Gale Bartolo left a message on June 3, 2023:
May you Rest in Eternal Peace 🙏
Robert Pepe left a message on June 3, 2023:
Darrin was my next door neighbor and friend in the early 1970's we use to play together. He was a good kid. Until we meet again in heaven, rest easy my friend.
Frank left a message on June 3, 2023:
I had the pleasure of working with Darrin throughout my career. He was always a A pleasure to be around, and a true friend to you. To his surviving family, May God shine his light on you at this most difficult time. Only fond memories, Darren may you rest in peace. 🙏🏼!!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Linda left a message on June 3, 2023:
Laurie Bryan,Colin, Caity and Hili Family. My heartfelt condolences and prayers are with you all. Darrin was our oldest first cousin and as far back as I can remember he has always been in Love with Laurie and showed us that Love can last a lifetime. Darrin I just hope you know that you are loved for eternity by each and everyone of us. We will see you again as promised by our Lord and Saviour.
Pete cintron left a message on June 3, 2023:
In memory of Darrin T. O’Connor, Pete cintron lit a candle
Caruana Family left a message on June 3, 2023:
In memory of Darrin T. O’Connor, Caruana Family lit a candle
Tina Fiore left a message on June 2, 2023:
We had so many laughs while working for the family court. I will forever remember the pranks pulled on the staff. You were taken way to soon and will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to your wife and family.
Tina Fiore left a message on June 2, 2023:
We had so many laughs while working for the family court. I will forever remember the pranks pulled on the staff. You were taken way to soon and will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to your wife and family.
Tina Fiore left a message on June 2, 2023:
We had so many laughs while working for the family court. I will forever remember the pranks pulled on the staff. You were taken way to soon and will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to your wife and family.
The Esposito Family left a message on June 2, 2023:
We are so sorry for your loss. Lori and Darren. Your boys are wonderful. I don't know your daughter well but I want all of you to know we are here for you. Darrin may you rest in peace.
The Esposito Family left a message on June 2, 2023:
We are so sorry for your loss. Lori and Darren. Your boys are wonderful. I don't know your daughter well but I want all of you to know we are here for you. Darrin may you rest in peace.
The Esposito Family left a message on June 2, 2023:
We are so sorry for your loss. Lori and Darren. Your boys are wonderful. I don't know your daughter well but I want all of you to know we are here for you. Darrin may you rest in peace.
Laura S Leon left a message on June 2, 2023:
My heart is heavy for you and your family. Darrin will be truly missed , but I will hold on to the memories with him in my life. The laughter and the serious discussions sitting at the dining room table. I am truly sorry for your loss and pray for comfort and peace for your family. I love you. Condolences from the Leon and Liatto family.
Rich heimburger left a message on June 2, 2023:
My condolences. He was a good co worker
The Doolittle/Berrios Family left a message on June 2, 2023:
Sending our deepest condolences to the entire family. Sending prayers 🙏 to you all during this very difficult time. We are here for you all and we love you.
The Doolittle/Berrios Family left a message on June 2, 2023:
Sending our deepest condolences to the entire family. Sending prayers 🙏 to you all during this very difficult time. We are here for you all and we love you.
The Doolittle/Berrios Family left a message on June 2, 2023:
Sending our deepest condolences to the entire family. Sending prayers 🙏 to you all during this very difficult time. We are here for you all and we love you.
Rich Nesbit left a message on June 2, 2023:
I remember at our wedding he told me I'd better take care of Barbara. I said I will take care of her as long as she takes care of me. He gave the head half cocked, squint...smiled and said OK
Alicia Hili left a message on June 2, 2023:
Wish I could be there with you guys. My heart aches not being there. Love you so much, I’m there in spirit <3
Anne Liatto Torres left a message on June 2, 2023:
My family’s condolences go out to your family, Rest in peace, Darrin
Fred & Cindy Scollon left a message on June 2, 2023:
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's not easy to lose a love. My condolences to the family. Darrin was such a wonderful person. You will be missed. Rest in peace.
MC Cabrera-Martin left a message on June 2, 2023:
To my old friend, Smitty, and that beautiful, wonderful family of yours, may you find peace in knowing that Darin is always watching and always with you. He watches you all grow from another place. I know true loves are few, but, Smitty, yours was one, and I hope you can find happiness in knowing you had this wonderful thing that so many others never have the chance to experience. My deepest condolences to you all. Clearly he was a good man.
Amy Hili left a message on June 2, 2023:
In memory of Darrin T. O’Connor, Amy Hili lit a candle
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Adriana OBrien left a message on June 2, 2023:
Sending love to your family ❤️
Cathy Miller & Susan Spensieri left a message on June 2, 2023:
Susan and I share many memories of Darrin from our grammar school days at St . Joseph's. We are shocked and saddened by his passing and send our deepest condolences to Laurie, his children, grandchildren, Sal, and his brothers.
Kathleen McCarthy left a message on June 2, 2023:
Rest in peace, Darrin! Thank you for your gifts of friendship and family!
Kathleen McCarthy left a message on June 2, 2023:
Rest in peace, Darrin! Thank you for your gifts of friendship and family!
Kathleen McCarthy left a message on June 2, 2023:
Rest in peace, Darrin! Thank you for your gifts of friendship and family!
Bob Flake left a message on June 2, 2023:
My Dear O’Conner family my deepest condolences love and respect to all , May Darrin’s Legacy live in each of you always , May Darrin’s love continue to shine down on us all . Love uncle Bob and family
Nick & Angela Roditis left a message on June 2, 2023:
May the fond memories of your beloved husband provide you with comfort and strength during this time of grief. May he rest in peace and memories be eternal. With our sympathy and condolences, Nick & Angela Roditis and Family.
Mary Murphy left a message on June 2, 2023:
Rest in Paradise. Love you forever
Rich , Barbara, Richard, Gaetana & Brennan left a message on June 2, 2023:
Love you!
Mary Murphy left a message on June 2, 2023:
Smitty, Bryan, Colin and Caitlin: Our deepest condolences to you all. Darrin I am so glad you were and always be my family. So many memories . I love you forever. Rest in peace my dear sweet cousin until we meet again. I love you all so much. Cousin Mary
Chet & Pat left a message on June 2, 2023:
Our hearts are broken. Heaven has gained an angel. He will be so missed.
Chet & Pat left a message on June 2, 2023:
Our hearts are broken. Heaven has gained an angel. He will be so missed.
Chet & Pat left a message on June 2, 2023:
Our hearts are broken. Heaven has gained an angel. He will be so missed.
Farenga Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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